Together forever : the gay man's guide to lifelong love / Martin Kantor.

Introduction -- The old gay scene or the new gay domesticity? -- Myths and facts -- Sailing the seven "C's" -- Coddling : positivity and affirmation -- Danger zone 1 : overcoming boredom and restlessness -- Danger zone 2 : curing sexual problems--sexual inhibition, sexual addiction, and cheating; and dealing with polygamy -- Danger zone 3 : dealing with anger -- Danger zone 4 : overcoming fear of closeness and commitment -- Danger zone 5 : getting past self-absorption -- Danger zone 6 : how not to be uptight -- Danger zone 7 : dealing with paranoia -- Danger zone 8 : overcoming excessive dependency -- Danger zone 9 : overcoming excessive competitiveness -- Third parties from hell -- Handling breakups -- A difficult relationship rescued -- Models of a great relationship.